3. What’s the best way to handle a breadcrumber?

What’s the best way to handle a breadcrumber?

"Hey, it's been great hanging out. I'm looking for a long-term relationship and all the juicy staff that entails. I'm not getting the sense you want that with me. If that changes for you, you know where to find me. I'm moving on to find my life partner. All the best and I'm sure I'll see you around town <smiley face, kissy face, whatever>"

Then move on. If he reaches out with anything other than asking you out, apologizing for being unavailable or telling you he wants more, feel free to be cordial but leave it at "hey, I hope you're doing well have a great week" breadcrumbers tend to continue to breadcrumb so don't assume it's anything different unless he explicitly states his intentions have changed.

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