What is the single most hurtful thing someone has ever said to you? Words that still sort of give you an ache to this day?

From my mom probably: "You are just like a cat" (she hates cats and has stated so on numerous occasions) " you come to get your love from me but the rest of the time you stroll around to get it from everybody else and whoever dares to step to close to you gets the claws." One could tell that she really put a lot of thought into her ponderings about why I didn't want her to touch my butt or pinch my breasts.

But from my dad "You are just like them" "Them" being the rest of the world that he thinks is after him (and me). Being called a traitor by the only secure source of love in my life killed me a little inside at the time. I don't think he meant it but burned a hole in my soul.

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