WIBTA if I [20] told my gf [21] that I'd break up with her if she got the tattoos and piercings she really wants to get.

ESH Being frank, the tattoos described are kind of trashy. She would probably regret them later on, and they would probably not look all that great. It also seems like she’s not really understanding that you can’t force yourself to be attracted to her mods. It’s out of your hands that you can’t find yourself attracted to that kind of stuff. On the other hand, though, it’s her body. She is the one who should decide on her tattoos or modifications, and it would probably be very upsetting for her to hear you say you’d leave her over it. It is kind of infringing on her autonomy, as you said. In short, there’s not really a happy solution to this. Everyone Sucks Here.

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