JazakAllah for your response. I often told her that I didn't have expectations like that. My expectations were really about how we'd treat each other. A solid Islamic foundation was something I did want, yes. But it wasn't until much later on that she revealed things that simply weren't right (from what I said and from things I didn't share). That's correct, your wife will be reflected in your daughter. I just didn't appreciate that she would discourage the hijab because wearing it means "you won't get jobs". To me thats a troubling stance to have. I am by no means free of fault but I said as you did that kids will copy the parents and it was our obligation to individually and collectively grow so that we can put ourselves in a position to be the best parents we can. Appreciate your time in reading and responding.