It’s definitely much worse than when I was younger too. Men seem much less respectful. Many men seem to think that if you say yes to a second date it must mean you want to fuck them. It makes it very difficult if you just want to get to know them better. I met one guy for a second date, in the afternoon. I suggested he come to my house and then we could walk to a local cafe for lunch. He came into the hallway and tried to get his cock out for me to give him a bj. I don’t know what the fuck is wrong with some guys. We hadn’t even kissed at that point, or sexted. That wasn’t an isolated incident. I won’t go anywhere that isn’t public unless I want sex now, because so many men seem to think it gives them permission have sex without any discussion.