Hey! I’m sure you are overwhelmed with responses but I have a white boyfriend and I am mixed as well. You are for sure not the asshole but honestly your boyfriend is. I know it’s probably hard to come to terms with, but if he allowed that then I think it’s best to move on. I could MAYBE even say work it out over the snide comments but the n-word is wayyyyyy too far. His parents obviously have a bias and it would make me uncomfortable knowing he grew up having that instilled into him. My boyfriend would never allow anyone especially his parents to speak to me this way. I’m here if you want to talk about anything! Whatever you decide, do what’s best for you! ♥️