What you getting so vexed at me for? I was literally defending the husband in the first part of my comment.

I didn’t say any of that. OP clearly thought the husband would make more of an effort once she had finished work, and he didn’t. He got his rocks off, ate food that she cooked and then immediately went on his game. A valid reason to be upset, no? While he’s not a mind reader, he should have a bit of thought for his wife.

I also don’t understand why everyone’s so mad she invited a friend over. It’s her house too and she asked the husband first and he literally said it was OK. He was clearly too immersed in his game to give a shit anyway.