I’m getting the impression (maybe another assumption!) that you’re asking about my personal feelings on this.
Can only speak from personal experience... I set my boundaries very early on, before the first date and if a woman is willing to respect mine as much as I respect hers, it’s all good and things will happen when we’re both ready.
Some women, just like some men do, will attempt to overstep boundaries.
They’ve even become angry when I don’t want to have sex with them.
To me, rightly or wrongly, it’s a major red flag.
If a woman is ACTUALLY into me, waiting a while won’t be a problem and respecting my boundaries shouldn’t be either.
I’ve never tried to order my thoughts and feelings on this before and I’m not even sure if it makes sense?