Am I crazy or is this healthy?

I’m getting the impression (maybe another assumption!) that you’re asking about my personal feelings on this.

Can only speak from personal experience... I set my boundaries very early on, before the first date and if a woman is willing to respect mine as much as I respect hers, it’s all good and things will happen when we’re both ready.

Some women, just like some men do, will attempt to overstep boundaries.

They’ve even become angry when I don’t want to have sex with them.

To me, rightly or wrongly, it’s a major red flag.

If a woman is ACTUALLY into me, waiting a while won’t be a problem and respecting my boundaries shouldn’t be either.

I’ve never tried to order my thoughts and feelings on this before and I’m not even sure if it makes sense?

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