I understand if you don't reply but your not listening to me either. I'm not saying that your experience in CVS isn't real I'm trying to explain to you that your brain as well as every other brain on the planet shapes its perception of the world in accordance to its understanding of the world. So if you predict your boobs will be ogled when you come to a situation that's close to ogled your perception will bend to make it so. What I'm trying to say is for you it happened. The same thing happens to drivers some times. If you drive the same strip of road all the time and its always empty your brain remembers it. Then one day you pull up to the stop sign look left and right for cars see its all clear and pull out directly into a motorcycle. The driver always says I didn't even see him and the cyclist always says you look right at me before pulling out. What happens is your brain knows the street is always empty and it is just looking for a change in the situation so when you looked left and right for cars and didn't see any your brain went nope no cars and showed you exactly what it expected to see with out bothering to process the biker because its not a car and that's not what it was looking for. You seem to think I'm trying to tell you what you experience isn't real and in a way I am but I don't think the things you feel are not real. This means to me for you the guy stared at your boobs in this action and at the same time for him he did not. This means both reality's happened. I'm not saying this effect is common but it does happen. The morality and even the substance of an act its self depends on the experience of the people involved. This experience can be wildly different depending on who you ask.