I have a similar thing. Not as extreme but similar. I always text my mom And even show screenshot of the time I will go somewhere. She sees it as says "ok". I even verbally tell her tmw/today im going

In end she still asks me and I told her a few times i messaged her so just look at it. She just says " im not gonna look at it. Tell me"

Like....first few times ok. But. After those times I just told her I wont tell her cuz I already told her plus she can easily check. Her response? "Im not gonna look at it"

She has a horrible habit of ignoring also.

The other day I told her I was gonna leave in 10 min and I was goinf blah blah and I will be home by blah blah and she just did the usual " mhm" . Than I was heading out and she went all dramatic how I didnt tell her where I was going and it was so late blah blah. And than my dad got mad at me too because he thought I was trying to sneak out and he went all mean to me too

Still left B) usually I would stay. Lol