I guess it's all about what works for you then. This is my logic: there were a lot of "wrong kinds of people" in my life growing up who I find directly responsible for fucking me up. But as I've healed, I've come to realize that "hurt people hurt people". And although I got hurt, that cycle of hurting does not need to be continued with me, and I don't want anyone to ever get hurt the way that I have gotten hurt by life. So! Treat people with compassion and kindness. They probably need someone to show them compassion and kindness. But also, know your limits, and walk away when you're disrespected. But yeah this is all subjective and everyone is different