Boyfriend puts work first

He puts it in savings, which is good but he has never offered to help pay for things that break or for home stuff. He pays a portion of the mortgage not half, but a decent amount. Nothing else really substantial. He says he's saving for our vacation, that he's been promising for two years (obviously covid stopped that). But it wouldn't have happened anyway because he won't get a passport, whenever I suggest a future vacation he says it's too many days off work. (5 is too many) I think he's saving just to save which I can't fault at all but he's still putting himself first. If he wants to live that way I don't see anything wrong with it, but you can't be a partnership if your partner doesn't factor in to your decisions

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