Describe your ideal partner then describe your ideal self
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Describe your ideal partner then describe your ideal self
Ideal partner:
not overweight
low body count or virgin (preferably)
is physically attracted to me (so no "my preferences changed over the years" stuff)
no piercings or tattoos
has at least a hobby that she does by herself,
is financially stable (don't care about the job in question or how much she earns)
listens
picks my side in case of an external conflict between me and someone else
respects me and doesn't look down on me (e.g. random remarks, denigrates me when I do sth, etc.)
wants to take walks outside in the evening/ at night
Ideal self:
strong and muscular,
financially independent (e.g. working on the pc while traveling, etc.)
all the emotional traits (listening, etc.) that I wrote above in the ideal partner section
being eloquent, having a great pronunciation and captivating people through my speech
having a good voice
low inhibition
source of inspiration for others
makes social interactions pleasant easily/ having people be more interested the more you interact instead of the opposite reality
being a good dancer
Traits of my ideal self that I can't change:
being 6 1
having an average or above d
having a full set of hair (I'm Norwood 3, have to keep it very short to not look like an idiot. If I had all my hair, I would grow it out until shoulder length)
having green eyes
Traits that prevent me from reaching my ideal self but can or can't be changed:
Unchangeable traits listed above
I'm bitter and black/dark red-pilled
Certain FOMO or/and retroactive jealousy if I finally get into a relationship
I have no self-confidence/ need to rely on mental tricks that will induce a placebo effect to have it, it doesn't last for long though (e.g. nofap, etc.)
I stutter or sometimes try to look for the right words for too long which makes my interactions awkward
retarded voice
social anxiety, feeling observed when in public, high inhibited
clumsy
huge ego coupled with no self-confidence = more bitterness