The few friends I have are from college and they very rarely make plans even when we lived together. During the weekends they’d turn to me and ask what our plans were and if I asked them to think of something then it would be a movie marathon but I personally find that a bit boring. Now that we’ve graduated, we’re back to our respective homes in an urban area which I’m not partially good at planning things in bc I get overwhelmed with choices. I guess that part is my fault but they don’t plan anything either so it kinda does feel like I have no friends. And it sucks bc they all have other friends which is crazy since that means it’s other people actively inviting them and I’m just sitting here tired of making plans. I love them though.