Being needy is constantly seeking attention, validation and affection from someone and acting as if your whole world depends on them. I don’t see how that’s the same as “being there for her”. You’re always there for your family and friends but I’m sure you don’t act needy towards them so your gf shouldn’t be any different.

You’re overthinking the fuck out of this bro, just give her 1-2 simple compliments then talk about shit with her like she’s a normal regular human. Being too forthcoming would be like showering her in compliments to the point where it’s annoying... sometimes too much of a good thing becomes bad

Doesn’t matter what a strong feminist woman says just role your eyes that them because men will always be the stronger more dominant sex it’s just how the world works so if they like being dominated in bed or whatever it’s just basic biology