Definitely agree. I was consecutively on and off with my ex for 2 years. The biggest time we had apart was 8 months. And i most definitely missed him everyday but i still practiced tons of self care. He eventually came back again, during the relationship he just didn’t feel so special as he did before. I used to think so highly of him and during the relationship he seemed so ‘meh’ to me. Me and him broke up about a couple days ago, and during an argument he admitted he is on talking terms with the girl he cheated on me with. And I lost all the interest in him, it hasn’t hit me yet and I don’t think it ever will, I’m honestly happy it’s over. I haven’t missed him one bit, and I’ve been developing good habits rather than staying with him and developing bad habits. It’s best to leave an ex in the past.