Is he (24M) not interested in long term with me (26F)?

Yeah, I was worried about that haha. I've only been in two relationships, both were long term (one a year and the second 3.5), and both men asked me to be their girlfriend in under a month. So, I guess I'm just not used to feeling so vulnerable, and I'm worried that he's not as into me as I am into him. This comment is super helpful. Thank you so much!

I definitely don't want to create a problem! And you're right. I guess I just wasn't sure if it was a real joke, or if he was being honest and I didn't want to ask him for fear that in my current panicky state of mind, I would overreact.

I am definitely known to over think, so I'll take this as a lesson.

I actually felt so silly after reading your response that I deleted my question xD You're totally right. I don't want to mess up a good thing by overthinking. Thank you so much.

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