I can't say I disagree with either of you on the matter. I believe there is still time to learn and adapt with one another as we aren't engaged, married, or have children just in a relationship. What I mean to say is if there isn't any improvement even if we are together for long there would be very little beyond love to stop me from pulling the chute and getting out. I had little interest before meeting him to be in a long term relationship and I'm not one to feel as though I wasted time in a relationship if it's a few years as opposed to 10/20 that sort of thing.

I've been attempting more to engage him in a sexual manner beyond when I was trying have sex if that makes sense. I've asked him about his fantasies and I try to share mine more. All my other relationships that have been even slightly sexual in nature were LDR first before in person so our sexual communication was on point, I'm trying to learn to do that in person as well.