How to split up chores when both parties are working full time?

Thank you!

I definitely need to voice it to him. It’s mostly that I’m about to be done with my degree (I have one semester left) and I’ve been taking upwards of 20 credits for the last 3 semesters so I’m BURNT right now. I think I’m really just looking for extra support to kind of alleviate all the stuff I have on my plate. But you’re absolutely right- I do need to voice it to him. I, unfortunately, fall into the mindset that I’m the woman and I should be doing these things without complaining (he doesn’t make me feel this way at all) but i feel less than for some reason if I ask for help with this stuff

Thank you again for validating our schedule though! Let’s me know that I’m the one being problematic right now lol

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