This isn’t even a question for me. My husband and I have a solid, awesome relationship that is 100% free from insecurity and jealousy and trust issues. He can go travel whenever he wants and with whoever he wants (usually that person is usually me because we genuinely are the best of friends) and I can go travel whenever and with whoever I want. It’s honestly the best thing ever to not have that kind of worry in my life anymore.

But the difference is that my dude never broke my trust like yours did. And if my dude had done something like that early in our relationship I would have walked away immediately. I don’t have time for that bullshit anymore. One strike and you’re out, end of discussion. If you don’t feel comfortable it’s because you don’t trust him. So I think the biggest questions are why are you with someone you don’t trust? And can you get over it?

And also, if he was caught downloading dating apps earlier in your relationship, how do you know he isn’t still doing that? From what I’ve seen, they just get better at hiding it.