I always thought that too so I did a bit of an experiment, so outside of sex I tried to see how connected we were, so when she wanted to be lovey and kiss me, boy sure felt connected right? But if I picked a movie she didn't like, or we did an activity she wasn't into, she never tried to join me, or get involved, she would just go zombie mode on her phone and snappy if I was like "Hey wanna try?"

I soon realized she was basically a giant bitch that was stuck in her phone 90% of the time I was around her and I didn't notice it because I just assumed that her sweet kisses and I love you's were real.

As soon as I pointed out that "Hey you know you love that phone at LEAST 90% more than you love me, how often do you catch me browsing it when you're trying to tell me a story? huh?" and she's like "Well that's cuz everything you do is fkn boring and I hate it."

So the truth comes out....

I would be willing to bet if you REALLY sat down to see if you're actually as compatible as you think, outside sex, you will find you aren't nearly as you thought you were.