This is not a how to, its just notes on what I noticed about myself or have been told. Im decently attractive and fit so that helps. I have a significant difference in how i treat men and women.

All women are treated as if I'm already with them. I don't even think about it. When they talk to me, im intimate and close, they feel comfortable sharing with me almost immediately. When i make introductions my entire tone changes its been described as warm and confident. One of my female friends told me when i met her my voice was the voice you would let lead you into a bathroom for animal sex. Which has happened in my life. Thing is though, I'm not looking for that when i talk. I simply am talking. I can ask about a movie and next thing i know im being invited over to watch it. I can ask someone to watch my stuff while i go to the bathroom and they might follow me in (hey what about my laptop).

Women are either extremely hot for me or they are ice cold. Sometimes I just am normal me and women will shut me down hard thinking i want them or something.

But i also watch guys who walk up saying hey girl you hella fine. Obvious and it sometimes works.

Every approach depends on the woman receiving. Its up to them and honestly they are all different. Just be you, no games or ideas of what they want.

The main thing is to make the approach in the first place.