My bf (29) won't visit me(27) as I study abroad. Instead, he wants me to visit him.

No. I haven't visited him yet. It has been less than two months I moved out and it has taken me some time to adopt to the new environment. I also wished he would visit me first and see me during this time. I told him he can come at any time and stay at my place. He said only 'Thank you, baby'.

Instead if I visit him, I have to book an airbnb place. I cannot stay at his place given that he still lives with his parents. But I never saw these extra costs as a hindrance to plan a trip. I am financially responsible and I also demand that we pay 50/50 when we go out. I also paid my share on our first date.

Just, I have really wished he could visit me first.

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