My Wife finally gives me her real opinion on porn and porn use.

You are both right and wrong about a lotta things, my friend.

I am not a misogynist, believe it or not. I just think its hilarious how easy women can make money off of various people that go to clubs. Some examples are fuckboys, rich kid snobs, old people screaming "IM DESPERATE" and the one meth user here and there. I should have maybe used a less offensive and degrading term than "skank". However, I am still angry on how a LOT of women (and do not think even for a second that your wife is the only example) can just say how pathetic and worthless men are, how they are either animals or are all the fucking same, but then, they can easily make money off of their misery, and only further fueling their instincts towards PMO.

I've never went to or seen an actual strip club before, but it seems easy to get the simple gist of it. You are right on how I am pathetic. I took the NoFap challenge because I wanted to reap the benefits of the so called superpowers these older men (and occassionally women) are describing so vividly in their posts. You won't believe how mind blown I became when I realized that they weren't bullshitting anything at all.

You are wrong on how I am demonizing these women. I just get mad at them for being foolish enough by hurting not only other people, but THEMSELVES as well. Who do you think I am, some guy born to hate women? Of course I see them as equals. Of course I see that they are just as capable as men, if not MORE when it comes to reaching success / being successful. It all depends on what the topic is. Acting, military, photography, fishing, whatever.

You are right on that its very typical having the majority of guys on NoFap acting all sacred, maybe even performing weird voodoo shit on their penises, but then immediately talk trash about women the second they step out of their door. However you wanna describe it. Its all the same.

I'm not even old enough to watch porn, as can be noticed in my somewhat subtle username which shows the year I was born. But back to the point, you are wrong about me hating these kinds of women. Because the only person I currently hate indefinitely is myself. Remember when I made that joke about your wife and all that crap? Things were rough for me around that time, don't blame me if I can't control my temper.

You are right and wrong about one final things in your reply. I did not completely dismiss your wife's assessment of porn addiction, I read through it carefully. What she was saying was true, although in a harsh way. But maybe that kind of opinion is whats needed to help the community of PMO improve. To stop being blind fuckin idiots. Thanks for having this discussion with me. Feel free to leave a reply. Hell, we could discuss this in a post together some time in the future. Sorry about what I said about your wife. I now understand she needed to work that way for money and to help her through school.

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