So there are basically seven couples we expected to have continued communication with (not constant, but once a month brief chatting wouldn't have seemed excessive considering how into us they seemed). We hooked up with each of them twice or 3 times (the max so far). We haven't even disclosed to any of them because none of them have messaged or contacted us in so long that it's obvious we're never going to hear from them again. I messaged one couple in April and no one responded for a week. I can take a hint so I'm not reaching out to them again. I guess they've all just fizzled and we would rather stick with people we know are fun than keep meeting new people. We don't have feelings for any of them, just know they would be a guaranteed fun night out and that sexual chemistry is definitely there. And that they all initiated talk about future dates. So we haven't even had to deal with being rejected for HSV1 by couples we already know because they all disappeared months ago.