[Question for men] What is AWALT about you?

Have you ever left one women for another?

Never. And I now regret it. Missed quite a few decent girls while trying to be the man of honor who never cheats and attempting to fix the crazy.

Have you ever comfort or shit tested your girlfriend or wife?

I teased them, always in friendly manner and sometimes they did get angry. If genders were reversed - coming from a woman those would qualify as shit tests. I was always doing this for fun. Just because she 'lost her frame' didn't mean shit to me - woman doesn't lose ton of attraction points the way man does.

Did you plan to have casual sex when you are younger, then settle down with a more appropriate woman when you get older? Or did you already do this?

Absolutely not. I entered every single relationship with LTR in mind.

Do you catch yourself being solipsistic at times?

It's impossible to not be solipsistic 100% of the time.

Do you ever inappropriately blame your situation on externals rather than internals?

Did that more than I should in the past. Now I know better and no longer have the luxury to run away from responsibility.

Have you ever felt upset at your SO because of a bad dream where they did something wrong?

Pretty sure I haven't.

Have you ever manipulated a woman to get what you want?

Never.

Do you have any female orbiters?

No.

Would dread game work on you?

Absolutely not. Even in my very beta days. My first impulse was to destabilize and ruin relationship. Dread game, trp style, aimed at me, had the effect to immediately put me in retaliation/burning bridges mode. That was in my old beta days. Now (40+ married) I would act differently, but thinking of it I still have the same first impulse.

Are you bad at math?

I've always been exceptionally good at math.

Has mental illness, joblesssness, emotional instability, or any other weakness of the woman ever turned you off from a relationship with her? Have you ever broken up with someone for any of these reasons?

Yes to both questions.

Do you like the woman to be aggressive in bed?

More enthusiastic? Yes, please. More aggressive, as in deciding the position, or slapping my ass or something - not really.

Do you prefer to let your SO make the decisions in the relationship?

About trivial things - yes (and I know I shouldn't). I don't really care what should we eat. I'd never want her to decide where to go on vacation, though.

And the one AMALT... Is your favorite philosopher Nietzsche?

He had many good ideas, but it's not like gospel.

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