Nother sidenote, this was eddited but in any lasting relationship, youre going to need to switch to direct communication instead of depending on someone to figure you out or give you their best to really understand someone. A major issue can also be that women who don't masturbate or haven't figured out how to bring themself to cum tend to have stupid expectations or might not anticipate being able to cum and just expect a wild time in bed. Not always the case, but a woman who doesn't know herself will have trouble guiding you to help her or could have crazy expectations of men figuring her out. If i have trouble getting myself off because my body is complicated, I have sympathy for other guys who try because it's even hard for me. It's not easy.