I'm sorry , this sounds really aweful to live through. I married into the lawyer life so might have some insight for you : sadly it will get even more distant between you guys when she enters into the full lifestyle of the legal world, work will be EVERYTHING and anything that falls outside that circle ( you) will be out of sight out of mind . Many lawyers out of convenience have workplace hookups , if you stay be prepared to feel jealousy a lot , me personally I would say do an exit strategy now while you still care , she may come back back to you after the fun factor wears off of her new work life but not if you are clingy . Best wishes to you.