There’s a difference between what people talk about liking and what they do. Real life is not social media.

I am a big woman (outside feedback is I am beautiful which I include because yes, I think my face helps ) I have NEVER been thinner than a Medium and I have never had a problem attracting men. I thought now at my heaviest after dealing with health issues & gaining 80 lbs during pandemic no one would be attracted to me anymore. Nothing much has changed. Still pulling hot guys. I’m sure I’m not everyone’s cup of tea but I’m certainly pulling more than I can date at once so does it matter than some dude somewhere may really just think I’m the pits lol … and do I want him if I know I have the capacity to be larger when I’m not well, practicing disordered eating like I used to?

I think the same is prob true for short man. They hear lots of hateful things in the media but IRL they have options

My 5’ sister used to only date men 6’0 and up. Then she met her husband and that was it. He’s 5’5”