Thank you <3 Maybe he just needs time. I get extremely uncomfortable very quickly when there's conflict and maybe jump the gun trying to fix things and often it ends up with me desperately trying to get him involved in resolving things. I have tried to distance myself in the past from taking initiative in resolving conflict but I guess I get too uncomfortable too quickly and end up trying to fix things.

But you're definetely right, maybe he needs a few days and I should respect the time he needs. It's frustrating to me because in my mind this is such a silly conflict that could've been resolved in a few minutes and then we could've gone back to normal. But now since we didn't do that in the beginning, it's gotten bigger and honestly feels a lot worse now than it did when it was just "oh it was propably a miscommunication".