I put their name in my cell phone contact list once we have exchanged numbers and talked on the phone. Every man I have talked to on the phone gave me their full name before we met in person. I met someone recently for a date after texting and phone calls using our real phone numbers. He then told me his real name on the date, btw I use my real first name, so it felt kind of strange to change the contact to his real name. I don’t hide who I am and I am easily found with a quick google search, have nothing to hide, and have never had any issues, so this actually made me uncomfortable! I’m not meeting anyone anymore that will not tell me who the are on the phone, sorry.