More affirmative than saying no and pushing on his shoulders? When someone doesn’t stop after being told no, and they’re on top of you, it’s hard to do much else other than give in. Not sure if the “backtracking on your decisions” part came from the part about hanging out again and reaching out again, but to me I think that’s done in hopes of a redo. Like maybe what happened wasn’t so bad and that person is actually good, so let’s hang out again and give them another chance. A denial of what really happened, trying to give them a chance to redeem themselves. Not saying it’s healthy at all but I just hate that the top comment here is from a man not acknowledging that when someone says no, and that person doesn’t stop, it’s rape. And sometimes that is hard for people to understand and deal with so they keep seeing that person