All big changes in life start with small steps, my friend.

It mostly matters on how you look at your life. If you set your mind to think that it is useless, you will never feel like doing anything about it because you will always stay in the same flask of nothingness and you will get comfortable with it.

But since you're posting this it's obvious that you're aware that it is a mistake.

YOU need to start. Not anyone, but YOU. Get a job, don't go high standards because high standards drag people down at times. Live in the moment, be PRESENT.

Life is hard when there's little to no motivation but life is even harder when there's motivation but it doesn't have THE flare.

Change the way you look at your life, be thankful that you wake up without having some health issue that is restricting your life. Break the cage that you're in and realise that there's so much more than "Im getting older but my day to day life doesnt change".

Meditate, find your peace. If you develop yourself, you will feel more confident about yourself and you won't believe how having a bit of confidence can change things.

All you need to do is start.... you can do so by going at various events in town, getting a job, working hard to get you busy and start making a name for yourself at your new job, befriending your co-workers - hanging out for a beer afterwards, getting flirty with that smoking hot co-worker that you saw come past you the other day, making the beer a "weekly" thing or "every 2 weeks", making that flirty co-worker your SO, who knows, getting promoted, BUT it is a lot easier said than done so.. go back to the first couple of words in this paragraph and then all the way back to the first sentence.

I hope I helped you out a little bit.

You have the power to change yourself and mold yourself into any shape. Just choose the right shape.

Peace