Yeah, not acceptable my dude. (Sorry if the author isn't a dude) like. The host's fiance loves our littles, but he knows there's a FIRM LINE between acceptable and unacceptable behavior. Hell, he doesn't even try to get intimate with anyone else BUT the host. Like, I'm a dude, but I will let him kiss me on top of the head before we go somewhere because ultimately he loves the host and our body and everyone in it, so it's an affectionate way for him to say goodbye and give him some peace of mind. But like. That's the line. He won't even kiss the littles on top of the head because they can't consent to that affection. He'll cuddle up with them if they initiate and read them stories, but the rule is if you wouldn't do it to a stranger's kid, don't do it to the littles. Because we still don't know all their stories, triggers, etc. He takes the role of responsible babysitter when they're out.

The fact that she tries to be intimate with what is essentially a literal child, is pretty gross. TW: SA this disorder is formed from trauma and, like it or not, sometimes that's sexual trauma. You can have littles that hold that trauma and can "act adult" and do "adult things" and taking advantage of a little who is a child is gross and a huge issue and red flag, op.