I had four dates with that woman who then broke it off saying she didn't have romantic interest and looked at me as a friend. We did nothing sexual besides a few pecks here and there and a whopping 5 second french kiss in which I backed off (idk why I backed off).

When she called I said "I wish I would have kissed you more. I think I friendzoned myself." And she said there's nothing you could have done differently.

I have a question. Do you think it's A or B?

A) She originally had some romantic feelings for me. There was a small spark, or small embers. But overtime it went out due to my lack of moves. She just wasn't aware that me not making moves was the reason it went out. My sexual unconfidence was a turn off for her till the small flame simply burnt out.

Or

B) She never did have any romantic feelings for me whatsoever, but she thought I was an awesome guy with a great personality. She was hoping to become physically attracted to me overtime, but it just never happened.

The first option really sucks since I felt like something great slipped in between my fingers. The second option doesn't hurt as bad knowing I had a losing hand from the start.

What are your thoughts. Any feedback is always good.