I hear you on such a deep level. It’s gotten to the point where I am turned off from sex after 15 years of it. I know I should feel lucky he is so attracted to me but I am more then just a sex object. I want to be cuddled and held without being fondled. I want to get out of the shower and not have to worry about turning him down. He’s not rude or nasty about it but I know it gets to him at times but it’s the reality of being a mother, working full time, taking on the emotional burdens of everyone in my close and extended families and dealing with my own issues alone. Sorry, I didn’t mean to steal your off my chest- just wanted to let you know I know how you feel and I’m sorry.