Thanks for replying. This is the kind of answer I was looking for.

People are not 'logical', they cannot be properly studied, measured and have their actions reproduced.

People aren't always logical, but people are also entirely capable of using logic when they need to.

You can say people act rationally, but rationality is subjective. What's irrational about having a reflexive contempt for people who's beliefs and actions are to limit your autonomy?

Everyone has prejudices, but not every man or non-feminist is an enemy, and I didn't ask about people who's beliefs and actions are specifically to limit autonomy. I'm talking about all men, including feminists, both second and third wave. Before you know them--and I see this happening increasingly--you take action against them (and yes, I'm generalizing, but that's what I've been seeing). Most men and women are for equality.

you didn't ever address the original point

That wasn't the original point, that was a red herring. I have an opinion about that, but it's complicated and not part of the subject-matter... Second wave feminism is a great thing, but in today's day and age the statistics for which second-wave feminism fought for has flipped. More women are being educated (some rates are double men's graduation rates), women are more likely to obtain jobs vs men (regardless of experience). Pay is commensurate experience, and it depends on the job.