Already struggling to set the boundaries.

You're totally not even reading/understanding what I wrote or what happened. This is the last time I'm going to explain.

  • He never wanted a "FWB" or "fuck buddy" situation with me. From day 1 he wanted to get to know me and would have wanted to date me had he not been all consumed with the test. He made that clear multiple times that he wanted more with me.

  • In that same vein, he never knew me. As in- I put up a front with him. I never opened up - I didn't even show him my personality. He'd talk and be nice to me, show me stuff, try with me. We can't even talk on the phone with each other without getting all wrapped up in each other.

  • In terms of their relationship- in order to practice law in a different country- she'd need to take the bar there, speak the language, get a job. And that's already hard to do given the country he's from is super saturated with native born lawyers. So while yes, it's still a possibility in theory (because who knows), I don't understand why you keep insisisting that this is going to be "the one" for him?

  • I told him I was looking for more now, and I didn't want a sex thing, so he has no reason to approach me for that. He knows I don't want that. He knows I am not waiting around for him, because I told him that. He was afraid I'd unfriend him from facebook.

And no, he would not have brought it up because during the test, he did not want a "relationship" because he was studying all day. If we had been close and talking that might have been a different thing, but going on dates, etc.

I'm not saying we'd for sure get married, but we both admitted to each other on multiple occasions that this felt right (actually he said that to me first).

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