Sorry for the delay in responses, i finally got some sleep last night. And yes. I posted about my recent knack for picking up guys with addict tendencies (and not addiction to Tinder... my own use of it comes and goes and I delete my profiles ALL the time because I feel like reseting the algorithm.)

This particular response is [here].(https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/7i4fmd/why_do_i_29_f_keep_choosing_boyfriends_who_are/dqw48rp/).

if you want to find people in the winter you're gonna have to step out of your comfort zone. Away from all the familiar, comfortable, places (Tinder) where you meet people. Attend an event or a meetup. Check out aerial yoga. Learn to blow glass. Good luck!