I hate that people jump to that they're not that into you or don't enjoy the sex.

A lot of the times it's just the effects of depression.

When I'm in a massive depressive cycle, sometimes - it just doesn't work. No matter how good it feels or how bad I want it.

That's a lot of guilty feelings I'd rather just avoid.

I am up for servicing her in other ways though.

A lot of the times it's stress.

We get insecure and overcomplicate things, and I get it - it does hurt and it is frustrating. You just have to both be willing to communicate and have patience. If you can't or are unwilling to do that, find someone who meshes with you better.

But your insecurities won't go away because you found someone who wants to have sex more often.

With insecurities, sometimes we need to be responsible for them ourselves, you know? Go outside of the way things make us feel to take a peek at the reality of the situation.

But yes, my girlfriend and I imbibe the tree daily and it only makes sex better.