My old best friend cut me out of her life suddenly based on what my dad had done without me knowing (him sharing certain knowledge). She blamed it on me. I never gave her a reason ever in our friendship to doubt me. In fact, I was always a pushover around her. She always made me do things I wasn't comfortable to do. I apologized for what he did anyways, because I felt bad for her. She was going through a rebellion phase against her parents' rules and cut me out like I was nothing. Irony is, she wanted empathy for dealing with her own strict parents but never cared to be empathetic for my own parents being strict on me. It was all about her, and she was oblivious.

She was bitter for years and years said/spread horrible things about me (untrue) including to two people who were friends she met through me. Many years later when a mutual friend of both of us decided she wanted to see if she can get my old friend to re-connect.... the old friend DID reconnect. I thought that was so big of her, I was excited. She said a decent apology by text saying she was immature, that when she saw me incidentally she missed me etc etc. Then right after she completely gave me the cold shoulder at any response of welcome I gave back or any attempt at me trying to be friends again. That felt shitty. It felt like she apologized for herself, not even a little bit for me.