It's stalky. You want to do a background check. Ask me for one.

I can't stop anyone from using public information and thinking they are Nancy Drew. It's how you use it that will be problematic. I now use a burner phone number. I have put all of my properties into LLCs. I don't tell anyone where I specifically live until we are well past coffee and get to know you dates. I did all of this after my 2nd stalking complaints took place. It was my LE resources that advised me to NEVER give out personal info or have any posted online. I trust them over anyone thinking they are some cyber detective.

I am happy to provide a copy of mine if you are gonna be a cheapskate about your safety and not spend money on an actual legitimate one. I would also be happy to sign a consent to use my SSN to get one. And I'd expect one from them. And feel free to contact your local LE resources. I found out that one woman who Nancy Drewed me already had an active RO on her in another state. That I couldn't find anywhere on the internet resources.

Safety is important. Make sure you are using actual facts rather than these internet aggregators.